How to Plan a Celebration of Life

How to Plan a Celebration of Life

Planning a celebration of life involves answering meaningful questions that help shape the event, allowing you to honor your loved one in a unique and personal way. Whether you’re focusing on a small gathering or a larger event, the key is to embrace the memories and connections shared with the person who has passed.

Key Steps to Planning a Celebration of Life

  • Who will be invited? Start by compiling a list of family members, friends, and others who would want to attend. The number of guests will influence where and when the celebration takes place. Make sure to check in with out-of-town relatives for scheduling convenience.
  • Where and when should the event take place? Consider the best location that’s accessible for guests, whether it’s a venue, a family home, or even an outdoor setting. Be mindful of any travel or timing constraints for important guests before finalizing these details.
  • Who will orchestrate or conduct the event? You may choose a religious leader, such as a pastor or minister, or hire a non-denominational celebrant to oversee the event. A celebrant can help create a personalized and inclusive atmosphere that reflects your loved one’s life and values.
  • Who will speak at the event? Many family members or close friends will express a desire to share memories or thoughts. Be open to those who wish to speak but also ask others if they would like to participate. Choose individuals who have shared a close relationship with the deceased and have meaningful stories to share.
  • What group activities would be appropriate? Consider activities that celebrate your loved one’s interests or life achievements. These activities can include memory sharing, storytelling, or even activities that reflect their hobbies or passions, providing an emotional space for everyone to connect.
  • What food or beverages should be served? The menu for a celebration of life can be tailored to the theme of the event or based on the favorite dishes of your loved one. Potluck-style gatherings are a popular option, allowing guests to contribute food, which can also add a personal touch to the event.
  • What readings and music should be included? Music plays an integral part in many celebrations of life. Choose meaningful songs that reflect your loved one’s personality, or select literary readings, poems, or spiritual passages if your loved one wasn’t fond of music.
  • What details of your loved one’s life do you want to share with guests? Rather than listing every biographical detail, share anecdotes or stories that capture the essence of their character. Highlight moments that reveal their personality, passions, or impact on others.
  • What decorations will you have? Consider using a memory table featuring photos and personal items, or a tribute video as a centerpiece. Decorations should reflect your loved one’s personality and create an atmosphere that invites reflection and remembrance.

Let Us Help with the Celebration of Life

We understand that planning a celebration of life can be overwhelming, but it’s also an opportunity to reflect and honor a life well-lived. Take your time and don’t hesitate to explore ideas that make the event truly personal.


With our experience, we can help make the process of planning a celebration of life smoother for you and your family. Reach out today to discuss your ideas, share memories, and together we’ll plan a celebration that truly honors your loved one’s legacy.


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